Barleen kaur

6 feb 2011

Marriage versus living together

Ever since Adam and Eve took the stage for life . Ever since the life was rendered by

God the life has been carried out even more with the tradition of marriages after which

comes the state of enjoying the family life .There are children who get you the essence

of life , there are expectations , there are daily trifles and many such similar things to

dawn upon. But living together has no trifles, no responsibilities. But with all such

relaxations there are still some things that make marriages an even more happier

experience to live with.

Factors that make marriages a happy experience

Affection:

Affection among the inmates. The people who together form what they call as the

family unit that is brought when all the family members live together sharing there

happiness, there sorrows . The love they offer to each other and moreover the feel that

unite them whatever may be the range of the problems they have.

Intimacy :

The family members are quite close to each other to share each others problems.

Factors that make living together a better experience

No responsibilities:

There are less of responsibilities with people in a live in relation as the family

members do not have much of work to do what they are expected that they have to

do they are stuck with work they should have done.

No expectations:

As there are no expectations there are less family trifles and the members are

not left quarelling with each other. They are not drowned by the wave of expecting.

No hidden facts:
There are no hidden facts in a live in relation. If the either of the spouse has alcoholism

habit. They wouldn’t stop disclosing as this would not affect there daily lives.

Satisfaction of sexual needs :

Whether it be a men or a women the most satisfaction that is derived by the two is to

satisfy there sexual needs to cure their sexual lust. The two can sleep together without

having bound by the ordeals of daily life.

Factors that lack in marriages

In marriages that are generally arranged by the family are those that lack the shadow of

lack of communication among the family members that is often reciprocated in the form

of fights and anguishness.

Conclusion

Studies reveal that over the past years what has decreased is marriages of the adults by

ten percent and 533 percent increase has been seen in United States of America.

Such other studies conducted in different regions of New York and Sweden reveal that

married stabilities have shattered over the past years.

There has been an increase in the rates of marriage break ups and divorced cases over the past Years .Add to it the works done jointly at Yale and Columbia Universities in

the United States found that "the dissolution rate for women who cohabit premaritally

with their future spouse are , on average, nearly 80 percent higher than the rates of

those who do not."